Main: Man, she'south a whore?
Nathan: How can you say that? She never got paid.
Main: I stand corrected. She's a slut.

I think it's unfair that women are often considered sluts for sleeping around. Women say that this perception of them propagates a double standard because men are never considered sluts for rampant sexual activeness. (Although, if that were truly the case, and so why do so many women I know phone call me a slut?) And recently, because I only dumped a girl who cheated on me, I accept been pondering exactly what it is that makes a girl a slut.

At present, when I get to pondering, well, sometimes I only take to get out a pen and write down my thoughts. This was one of those times. You see, in that location are many different kinds of sluts, and in that location is not one difficult and fast dominion that simply defines a woman as a slut. But there are (at to the lowest degree) iv levels of slut.

Let's look at them, shall nosotros?

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Level 1: The Sexually Liberated Adult female

"Sadly, the Cheating Slut is actually what most men mean when they say 'slut' or 'whore.' The first two levels are merely people beingness people."

This woman is not technically, past definition, a slut. She is the woman who gets stereotyped every bit a slut just because she likes to fuck around. This adult female typically has no beau (or a boyfriend who doesn't intendance that she fucks other men) and just goes out looking to get laid. She doesn't feel that she should have to settle downwardly, and she thinks it's unfair that other women dethrone her for this. She is right. She is also one of the reasons I get up in the morning.

Of the terminal four women I've slept with, three fall into this category considering (equally far equally I know), they were not cheating on anyone, were non lying about who they fucked, and were not asking for annihilation more than sexual activity. Women love sex, too; they should not exist blamed for seeking it. Stereotypes injure everyone. Ironically plenty, commonly other women detest this girl because she tin fuck who she wants, while men bare her no sick will. She is, subsequently all, simply doing what she likes. And men, for the nigh role, respect that.

Unlike the whores that make upwardly the 2nd level of slut.

Level 2: The Garden Variety Slut

Much like the Sexually Liberated Woman, this slut has no boyfriend. She does notwithstanding, and for whatever reason, experience she needs to atomic number 82 men on. She fucks several dissimilar men at 1 fourth dimension while tricking the men she fucks into thinking that they are pursuing a relationship. Which is to say that every ane of the suckers she fucks happens to think that they're the slut'southward soon-to-be boyfriend. She as well loves seeing men fight over her, which may be (at least in part) the motivation for her leading these poor bastards on.

The primary thing that separates her from the Level 1 Slut is that she is non honest with the men in her life considering she derives pleasure from wrapping suckers effectually her little finger. The women representing this level of slut usually get out me alone. I'm not certain why, simply I'chiliad pretty sure the Garden Variety Slut has a radar for suckers, and considering I am non ane, I hardly have to deal with these bitches.

I can't say the same for the sluts in levels iii and 4.

Level 3: The Cheating Slut

Cheating Sluts come in three dissimilar categories. There are those who simply crook on a boyfriend they've had for a few months and and so tell him (no big deal); those who crook on a guy they've dated for a few months, never tell him, and force him to find out from his friends (a slightly bigger bargain because these sluts lack honesty); and and so there are the worst kind—the sluts who fuck effectually on a human being they've been with for years and never tell him about it.

The get-go girl I fucked afterward the breakup belonged in final category. The bitch was engaged. She fucked me belatedly in the afternoon and left early in the evening because her homo would soon be arriving from work. To her fiancée, I say, "I promise your parents are proud of yous for preparing to marry a 21-year-one-time waitress with no education. Oh, and past the way, I've never met a girl who had a tell for her female ejaculation before. I mean, her leg quivers like an epileptic in mid seizure and then she squirts. That's kind of weird. And yes, I like her torso, besides."

Sadly, the Cheating Slut is really what about men mean when they say "slut" or "whore." The starting time 2 levels are just people being people, not people beingness disloyal bitches. What separates this level of slut from the fourth and final level of slut, is, quite simply, the motivation for cheating.

Level 4: The Coin Grubbing Slut

Fortunately for me, I live in a college community where finding a man with his ain motorcar, no roommates and a steady income is like hitting the jackpot for most girls. Unfortunately for me, this means I often become hit on by the Coin Grubbing Slut.

The saddest thing well-nigh the Money Grubbing Slut is that she actually does like (or fifty-fifty love) her swain. She simply expects more than from her man in terms of monetary consideration. She doesn't brand her ain coin and can't live off her boyfriend's little McDonald'southward wages, and then she seeks out men who volition take her to squeamish places and buy her shiny objects. This is the worst kind of whore considering she'due south pissing on dearest and respect all in the name of a few dollars.

I love promising this daughter I will take her some place nice, so fucking her and ordering a pizza, explaining to her that I'm bankrupt. Subsequently this, I can normally count the seconds until she leaves, feeling used. Then I double check my wallet; you tin can't trust a Money Grubbing Slut (at least, not until she starts making her ain money, in which case, the nickname gets changed to "Materialistic Shark," which is unfair—I mean, why blame a girl for wanting coin and making information technology?).

So guys, the next fourth dimension you take a adult female habitation from a bar, or fuck her in the bathroom at a party, or on the rooftop of a shopping mall, or in the grass median on the side of a highway (you know, whatever works for you), you lot may desire to consider exactly what level of slut you are fucking. Remember, it's non wrong if it's just sex for sex's sake (hell, female person sexual liberation was the best thing to come up out of the women'south rights move). Simply if she'southward in a relationship with another guy (or guys) when you offset fuck her, odds are she's not the kind of girl you desire to spend six bucks on.

And then again, few women are worth vi bucks.

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